Hello Friends,
Today, I am going to tell you about the most important tips of parenting skill.
MAKE TIME FOR YOUR CHILDREN
Parents Strive to make their kid's lives better before they come in this world and they continue to do that till their last breath.
After becoming parent a couple’s life is centered around their little bundle of joy. A couple transforms into a mom and dad and everything that was before ‘us’ is now ‘our baby’. Throughout their life, parents dedicate their time directly or indirectly for their kids.
But when kids start growing (after the age of 6 or above yrs)
parents stop giving them as much time as the time they used to give before, continue with this habit they stop giving time at least one hour in a whole day. The Outcomes of this parent's behavior is very dangerous.
transition the child who feels unsupported may strive to seek attention and approval, which can lead to increase stress and pressure on them
Some ways to spend time with kids
A Study published by the journal Child Development has taken a look at how parents’ use of technology affects their children’s behavior, and has concluded that “technology-based interruptions in parent–child interactions”
(3) Make bedtime special time
Have a routine that you and your child can do every night. It can be anything—making silly
(4) Go for a date
Yes, you read it correctly. Your spouse and you can take turns to spend some quality time with your kid. Pick out a day, get your little one to choose an activity, and both of you can spend quality time. Get him/her to talk to you. Surely, you will hear a lot of things. When your spouse is spending time with him/her, you can catch up on all the work you want to finish.
(5) Play together
(6) Go for a walk, drive
Going to the nearby shop, playground, or relative’s place? Walk down with your child. It’s a leisurely exercise. Go for a walk with your kids. Wherever she/he Wants to go just follow her/him.
Drive around your locality. Just let it be—a slow ride so that you can discuss almost anything with your child.
Keep following my TIPS
Thank You
Sunil Rakesh
Today, I am going to tell you about the most important tips of parenting skill.
MAKE TIME FOR YOUR CHILDREN
After becoming parent a couple’s life is centered around their little bundle of joy. A couple transforms into a mom and dad and everything that was before ‘us’ is now ‘our baby’. Throughout their life, parents dedicate their time directly or indirectly for their kids.
But when kids start growing (after the age of 6 or above yrs)
parents stop giving them as much time as the time they used to give before, continue with this habit they stop giving time at least one hour in a whole day. The Outcomes of this parent's behavior is very dangerous.
When children are older and parents absence continues, especially in times of
“They will learn to reach out to other people or sources for this support, further weakening the Parent-Child bond.”
When parents are not present, they are relying on others to instill the values and morals that they wish their child to follow and internalize, and this means parents are going to be less able to guide their children and keep them safe
“Children are likely to become disengaged from family life and will form their own moral compass around information and experiences that they encounter outside the family, including online (mobile, TV, tab, and many electronic gadgets).”
Why Should Parents spend time with their kid??
“Children imitate what their role models, most often parents, do and also what happens in their surrounding. Parents can teach so many lessons by Spending quality time with them. Parents help nurture various skills including communication, social, writing, reading, etc.
Spend qualitative time as it shapes a child’s personality.
When this isn’t the case, he/she is likely to develop an attention-seeking behavior, especially when in public as parents would have to hear him/her out,”
Take time off your hectic tiring schedule, even if for a few minutes only. Moreover, spending time with your little one today is worth it—you can’t miss that twinkle his/her eyes, for one. Here are Some ways to bond with your kid, almost every day:
Some ways to spend time with kids
(1) Make This a part of life
Whether a stay-at-home or working parent, ensure that you should take out some time from your busy schedule and make this time for your child. Make it part of your agenda for the day. It could be after school hours, before dinner, or at bedtime. How about helping him/her with the homework? After a long day at work or doing household chores, you’re tired as well. So ask your child to lend you a hand in the chores—washing utensils, cleaning the room, folding clothes, etc while doing this you can talk and discuss many things even you can make that time enjoyable.
(2) Keep your gadgets aside
A Study published by the journal Child Development has taken a look at how parents’ use of technology affects their children’s behavior, and has concluded that “technology-based interruptions in parent–child interactions”
TV, mobile phones, video games, etc are a buzz kill.
Let’s say you just get too comfortable staring at the screens. Yes, watching TV or playing video games offer a good bonding experience. Keep it aside for the weekend if you like. Every day, make it point to keep your phone on silent once you’re at home. If it’s office work, you can sort it out in the morning. Instead, play board games, do an art-and-craft activity or eat at the table. you can make a great family bonding time.
Let’s say you just get too comfortable staring at the screens. Yes, watching TV or playing video games offer a good bonding experience. Keep it aside for the weekend if you like. Every day, make it point to keep your phone on silent once you’re at home. If it’s office work, you can sort it out in the morning. Instead, play board games, do an art-and-craft activity or eat at the table. you can make a great family bonding time.
(3) Make bedtime special time
Have a routine that you and your child can do every night. It can be anything—making silly
song with funny words, pillow fight, or reading a book. Just make it special. Say “It’s going to be bedtime soon, let’s get ready for bed.” Let your child laugh at your silliness.
(4) Go for a date
(5) Play together
When I asked a colleague of mine how he spends time with his kid, he said that they gilli danda, frisbee, or seven stones?
pretend play. “We build a house, a tent, or anything with pillows, bed sheets, and whatever we can lay our hands on.” Playing, indoors or outdoors, is a fun way to bond with your child. How about teaching him/her to play
(6) Go for a walk, drive
Drive around your locality. Just let it be—a slow ride so that you can discuss almost anything with your child.
It’s impossible to quit the job to spend time with kids properly. You can always make adjustments in your daily schedule. You may have tried doing that a number of times without much success. Nevertheless, try again. How about starting it by taking just a few minutes off. It could be your short break from work!
After all, like someone as has said, “To be in your children’s memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today.”
Keep following my TIPS
Thank You
Sunil Rakesh
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