PARENTING TIPS 4 " LISTEN TO YOUR CHILDREN"

Hello Friends,

Greetings of the day!!

Listen to your children

Today Here I am with a new TIP

~~LISTEN TO YOUR CHILD~~

Listening is a simple and small word but to Listen, somebody is a very difficult thing to do.
To think of listening to your child seems a daunting task for parents.

But my dear friends, for your kind information
It plays a vital role in parenting.

Add to that the fact that when the child needs to be listened, and you may have another 1000 things running on your mind wanting you to just jump off your seat right now.

However, research has it that listening to your kids makes it more likely that they listen to you (which most of us want).

When a child feels listened, he/she is more likely to listen, and having been understood, he/she will understand your point of view as well. It helps parents and children form stronger bonds and relationships, and builds their self-esteem.

It's important that your communication with your children goes both ways.

You shouldn't just be there to enforce rules, but to listen to your children when they are having a problem. You have to be able to express interest in your children and involve

Yourself in their life. You should create an atmosphere in which your children can come to you with a problem, however large or small.

You can even set aside a time to talk to your children every day.

This can be before bedtime, at breakfast, or during a walk after school. Treat this time as sacred and avoid checking your phone or getting distracted.

Talking and listening to your child holds a lot of importance, as it helps your child build a bond with you and develop his/her trust. It improves the bonding in a relationship and builds a child's confidence. Not many parents have the skill to "listen", but with a conscious effort, they can develop it And slowly with practice you can better it as well.

When you are trying to talk or communicate with your child you should

Encourage your child to open up with you by talking
Be patient and listen to the child while he/she feelings thoughts across
Focus on body language and actions, so that to understand the non- verbal forms of his/her communication.
If your child says he has to tell you something, make sure you take this seriously. If the timing is right now, drop everything you're doing to listen properly, or set up a time to talk when you can really listen.
Don't underestimate your children's intelligence. They often have insights to share or a way of sensing when something is wrong (or right). Take the time to hear their perspectives.

Thank You

Sunil Rakesh

Milan Tomic

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