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Today I want to discuss Kids' Aggressive Behavior and Violent Attitude.
As we know kids are not born with anger and violent attitude.
They get these things from:-
Anger isn't good or bad itself, the way a child deals with anger can be constructive or destructive.
When we face these problems we have to follow these solutions.
Solution:
First of all, we should not get angry after seeing our kid's anger.
• We should try to find out reasons for his anger and understand his anger. Calmly ask the child to explain what has caused him to become so angry and try our best to sort out those reasons.
Most of the times, our child does have a valid reason.
If we talk on this issue than it can help some children work through the anger and help them to calm down. but sometimes children don't want to discuss with us. it's our duty to make him feel comfortable asking again and again calmly.
But still, if we fail to talk to our kid than keep a pet at our home. Our kid may feel comfortable talking to a pet.
We should let our kid know how genuinely we care about his situation and feelings.
Toddlers may feel comfortable in our physical presence. We can give a tight hug if needed.
HUG is a very powerful tool to make your presence stronger. By doing this kid feel he is being loved and secured.
* As we know most of the child mimic adults and they will copy our way of handling our own anger and frustration. So try to set a good example by showing your anger management skill - our child may likely do the same.
*Whenever necessary we should praise our child if he deals with his anger in a positive way our child will know that we notice him always.
NOTE:- If we feel our kid's anger pangs us frequently and increasing, it is advisable to start therapies on anger management to rule out the serious manifestations later.
Thank You!!
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