Hello Friends,
Greetings of the day!!
I hope you are enjoying my tips and started working on those tips,
Friends, if you feel anything to be asked, to be discussed, you all are advised to ask, share and discuss your views.
When we give any gift to our relative or friend, we think many times about the product, quality, worthiness, etc before giving. So that person can feel good after looking at our gift.
Just think HOW CAN GOD GIVE US USELESS OR WORTHLESS GIFT?
As we know every child is a Gift of God. Each Child is individual and unique.
Every child is born with their own talent.
Every parent wants WHAT IS BEST for their kids.
You want your kids to be the best that they can be and motivate and encourage them to achieve all that they can. This is entirely normal. However, sometimes the desire to have your kids succeed can cause you to compare them to other children, siblings, cousins -
and my dear friends
THIS IS BIG PROBLEM.
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Enjoy their differences and instill in each child the desire to pursue their interest and dreams. Failure to do so may give your child an inferiority complex, an idea that they can never be good enough in your eyes.
If you want to help them improve their behavior, talk about meeting their goals on their own terms, instead of telling them to act like their sister or neighbor.
This will help them develop a sense of self instead of having an inferiority complex
Greetings of the day!!
I hope you are enjoying my tips and started working on those tips,
Friends, if you feel anything to be asked, to be discussed, you all are advised to ask, share and discuss your views.
My Today's TIP is AVOID COMPARING YOUR CHILDREN TO OTHERS (especially siblings)
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| Best Parenting Tips |
When we give any gift to our relative or friend, we think many times about the product, quality, worthiness, etc before giving. So that person can feel good after looking at our gift.
Just think HOW CAN GOD GIVE US USELESS OR WORTHLESS GIFT?
As we know every child is a Gift of God. Each Child is individual and unique.
Every child is born with their own talent.
Every parent wants WHAT IS BEST for their kids.
You want your kids to be the best that they can be and motivate and encourage them to achieve all that they can. This is entirely normal. However, sometimes the desire to have your kids succeed can cause you to compare them to other children, siblings, cousins -
and my dear friends
.
Comparing your child with other children has several negative consequences on your child's well being. Not only will you stress them out, but also you could damage your relationship with them.
Nowadays, comparing your child with other kids has become every parent's habit and that should be avoided There are several consequences that may arise from comparing your child such as below:-
1)Lowering their self-esteem and confidence
whenever you compare your child with another kid, it slowly eats away at their confidence and if you want to improve your overall parenting skill, you should stay away from doing that.
2)It stresses them out
Always comparing your child to someone else bound to stress them out. they may feel the need to overwork themselves to gain your approval and this is highly damaging to their well being.
3)Comparison kills Contentment
As a parent, if you constantly compare your own child with other children, you may start feeling your child isn't good enough. you may begin to see other people's children are better than your own child and this is extremely dangerous for your kids.
4)Your child may begin to withdraw themselves
eventually, when a child gets tired of being compared, they may begin to withdraw themselves completely. it could be that they think that no matter how hard they try, there will be someone else who will outperform them so they may not even bother at all
Enjoy their differences and instill in each child the desire to pursue their interest and dreams. Failure to do so may give your child an inferiority complex, an idea that they can never be good enough in your eyes.
If you want to help them improve their behavior, talk about meeting their goals on their own terms, instead of telling them to act like their sister or neighbor.
This will help them develop a sense of self instead of having an inferiority complex
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| Comparing kids |
- Comparing one child to another can also make one child develop a rivalry with his or her sibling. You want to nurture a loving relationship between your children, not a competitive one.
- Avoid favoritism. Surveys have shown that most parents have favorites, but most children believe that they are the favorite. If your children are fighting, don't choose sides, but be fair and neutral.
- Overcome natural birth order tendencies by making each child responsible for themselves. Putting older kids in charge of the younger one stokes sibling rivalry, whereas making them take responsibility for themselves encourages individuality and self-reliance.
Conclusion
Raising a child without having to compare them to other children is highly possible. Set benchmark for them to reach instead of comparing them to others Encourage their strengths and praise their accomplishments.
Teach them that it is OK to have some weakness and assist them in any way you can. above all always support them and show them love and you will that they always want to try their best.
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